Hawley, 2011, The Role of Competition and Cooperation in Shaping Personality

"Everyone says you should be nice all the time but no one really is, so if you do what you should band be nice all the time, you're probably gonna get screwed." (Hart, 1998--A Child's Machaivelli: A Primer in Power)

"Unrestrained altruism is a strategy that generally does not pay."

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