More of Dr. Jim / James Husen reading from Dr. Childress's book on An Attachment-Based Model of "Parental Alienation"



            This time I'll be reading Dr. Childress's chapter on Attachment and Personality. Dr. Childress describes the internal working model and defensive structure of persons with disorganized attachment. 






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